Our emotions

I often say happiness is a state of mind but the hardest thing one can do is to alter it. Easy enough to say but hard as stone to crack. So what is one to do? I have come to a realization that emotions control every aspect of our daily lives even the way we think but especially to how we react. It all starts with how we feel and then it turns to thought which in turn turns into action thus the greatest thing that one should learn is to control his emotions. If you are able to master each emotion that you feel you will be able to control everything that is to follow. Our actions are directly linked to how we feel most of the time and people judge you on how you act which is the last byproduct of thought. People don’t judge you on how you think, you judge yourself on how you think. What you say is action of what you think, so the last thing that you do is to act on your thoughts, which is communicating them. When we are happy we are able to be more productive but when we are sad our level of productivity decreases, this is proof that one’s feelings are directly linked to his actions. So for one to be more conducive in this already complex system of the universe one has to unburden himself of the negative emotions.

The pain of a smile.

Messages are passed everyday but the non-verbal are more common than we think yet as common as they are indeed they are the most confusing. Take a smile for instance, ever wondered how many of the “greats” have fallen because of a smile? In my short life that I have lived here on this earth I have seen that no greater lie exist than that of a smile. We all have fallen victim to this lie. They say a smile can heal a broken heart but what they don’t say is that it can also break it as much as it can heal it. Rather show me that you hate me than wrap your hate with a smile, its better to be with the Devil that you know than the one you don’t. We spend time trying to build relationships and friendships only to realize that it was all a lie, the smiles shared across the room or the laughter heard from far were all a lie. That is more hurting than finding out that your crush is getting married. I don’t think people realize how hurting a fake smile is when the truth does come out. The scar left is permanent. There is nothing as sad as scarred soul. You can never understand these words until you go through the pain. I don’t know if you can relate but I’m sure you won’t die without relating. Its not that I am wishing you all that is bad, I am just stating what is inevitable. One hundred!

Love

I wonder why we act silly when we like people? I have seen grown men acting like kids when it comes to love. I guess it brings out the youth in us as love does not exist through times. You know you love someone when you are willing to act like a fool for them, indeed love knows no pride. To the person looking outside in he does not comprehend how one can be blinded and the one in love does not see but yet given a chance to do it again I bet they would act foolishly because love is indeed blind. Love is a force and the biggest force there is. But love has a sister, the wickedest sister there is and her name is Hate. When love feels rejected she finds comfort in Hate and Hate is happy to be the comforter of her sister. They have the most different of personalities yet there is a bond that binds them together. Love does not exist without Hate and Hate does not exist without love, it’s the ying and yang, they are codependent even though one may not admit to the other.